I have been silent for a few years on this blog, but that’s about to change! I am so ready to ring in the New Year, 2020! As we are saying goodbye to 2019, I reflect on the last few years. They were difficult, sad, and emotional. But on the other hand, they were beautiful, fun, loud and full of experiences that taught me so much!!! Just when you start to think, “I know everything,” life hits you in the face! I’ll show you all the things you know nothing about! And here they come, financial difficulties, marriage problems, lack of fulfillment, parenting issues, career challenges, return problems with family members, and oh, I could go on, but only mentioned a few! Tony Robbins says problems are a sign of life! So I am so alive!!!! Here is the first thing to be grateful for……lol. I also managed to get through all these difficulties and still be healthy and still be hungry for more! These two are key to have the desire to go on and transcend all challenges. To top it off, I got a chance to finally go to Tony Robbins’ seminar, Date with Destiny! I knew going in that it was going to be crazy and life changing, but it did exceed all my expectations! For 6 days, I got to experience so much love and positive energy, that just that in itself would have been worth the cost! But I also had the opportunity to focus on me and reflect on every aspect of my life! It was incredible. I was honest with myself, I cried, I laughed at many things I said to my loved ones, but most importantly I got my voice back! I knew for years that I have been losing myself slowly, a little piece every day! During those 6 days, I finally saw clearly everything that I am so grateful for, all the things that were in plain site, but I did not notice because I was focusing on the bad stuff. When you live in your heart, not your head, everything becomes clear and you get all the answers! Once I saw the answers, I also realized that my biggest worry of being judged is only a perceived fear, because I am not only loveable, but I am already loved so deeply by so many people! And I also realized that I am loved for the way I am! So it’s ok for me to authentic, be myself!!!! This realization made me instantly happy. Now I feel that I can be fun, crazy, loud, blunt and at the same time, loving, caring and full of empathy. I am Courage, I am Fun, I am Passion, I am LOVE! You know what the most interesting part is? That none of my life’s circumstances have changed at all! All the changes happened in my perception of how my life is and what meaning I give to events that happen around me. Now all of a sudden I dance around every day, and I mean blast music and dance around every single day, I laugh all the time, I am playful with my husband and my kids! I speak my mind and feel good about it. I feel grateful for the teachings of the last few year and I am so ready to take my life to the next level!!!! Life happens for us not to us! I will continue getting more clients for my coaching business, enjoy my family every moment, and commit to focus on the good every single day! I wish you all my family and friends a very Happy, Joyous Year full of laughter and adventure, and anything else you wish for! More posts will be coming………